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What a week it has been.  It’s been a challenging one, for many reasons.  Praying hard for some people close to us who are going through a heart-wrenching time, and feeling a little helpless about it all.  Brigie is teething, and Vivi has been a little sick.  Hoping for some quiet this weekend, and a chance for all of us to get a little refreshed.

A few links for the week:

(1) I love Hudson and Ruthie’s line of felt-embellished onesies and cardis.  Check out the lightning onesie, awesome for boys.  And, I mean, these giant bows?  My goodness, so cute.

(2) Speaking of giant bows, this is the etsy shop where I bought my favorites for Vivi (they are gorgeous!).  Usually I get the alligator clip version, but now that she has more hair, they are beginning to slip out, so I need to re-order some with the french barrette.

(3) Did you see the pic of Vivi and Brigie on instagram yesterday? Sounded like a lot of y’all could relate.  They were excited to try on their cute new matching bathing suits and we were going to snap a picture.  Both were really happy, but shortly after I put Brigette in her chair, she lost it (teeth!), which set Vivi off, too (which has been the trend this week).  I couldn’t help but still take the picture, which really made me laugh about it all.  Sometimes you really do have to laugh to keep from crying.

(3) I get a lot of questions about baby bedding.  I really prefer to keep it simple.  I suggest getting a few really adorable crib sheets; you’ll likely change them often, and it’s fun to have a few options to give the nursery a new look here and there.  I didn’t use bumpers for Vivi or Brigette and I liked being able to peek in the room and see them easily, and also I think it really makes the crib feel less bulky.  If you need a skirt, go with something simple that has clean lines or box pleats.  I started a pinterest board with some of my favorite go-to bedding options, and I’ll keep adding to it.

Happy Friday!  I’ll be posting on Monday with a peek into our den, plus a fun discount to one of my favorite online retailers.


flower bomb


flower baby room ideas

Check out today’s post on Style Spotters for some floral inspiration (go to the post for sources for everything above)!  I’m loving my friend Ashley’s new shop – her floral prints are positively gorgeous!!  (Check out her moody dark florals – so lovely.) I’m also in love with those beautiful yellow lamps!


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small closet makeover

Recently, sweet Sheaffer asked me to participate in a new column on her blog, Pinterest Told Me To, called “closet confessions.”  (She uses Pinterest for wardrobe inspiration, and then posts her interpretations using items from her own closets, plus other great style tips!)  She asked for some photos of my closet, along with a few details about some of the pieces hanging in it (check out the post to see).  I quickly jumped on the idea because the thought of re-organizing and refreshing my closet has been on the back of my mind for quite awhile.

It can be a challenge to keep everything organized in this season of life, where it seems I am in a cycle of not pregnant, pregnant, super pregnant, post-pregnant, nursing, post-pregnant-and-not-nursing-but-haven’t-lost-all-the-baby-weight-yet, and so on.  And then if you hope to do it again, you don’t really want to get rid of it all, because you don’t want to have to buy new clothes when you are once again in the hopefully very short season of post-pregnant-and-not-nursing-but-haven’t-lost-all-the-baby-weight-yet.

small closet makeover

Also, as we live in a 1948 house, our closets are all fairly small so we don’t have much extra storage.  My closet is what I’d call a “step-in,” as in you can step in, turn around, and step out.  There is no walking involved, but you can actually get into the closet at a snug 60″ x 30″.

small closet makeover

Formerly, the closet had a rod on both sides, with shelves above, and I had all most of my shoes scattered on the floor.  I decided to paint it all black, to sort of give it a boutique look, and when I took down the rods and shelves I was happy to discover there were shelf supports already existing all up and down one side of the closet.

This was also extra incentive to do some real purging, because I’ve seen photos of gorgeous closets with shoes lining the walls.  I did an honest evaluation of my clothes, taking out those that don’t fit well or that I just don’t wear, making a concise collection that fits on one rod.  Then, I was able to organize my shoes up and down the shelves on the other side.

small closet makeover

On one shelf, I displayed my treasured Harry Potter collection (my guilty pleasure when I’m feeling a little stressed) and a pair of vintage brass camels that are great for holding accessories, plus this lovely little box that contains smaller jewelry items.

small closet makeover

small closet makeover

On the other side, I have clothes hanging on the rack, and my jeans are stacked on the shelf above.

small closet makeover

I painted the walls all black (caviar by Sherwin-Williams), which is really dramatic and fun, and I wanted to add some kind of interest to the back wall.  I loved the backdrop Anna Rifle Bond created for the Rifle Paper Co. booth at the stationery show, so I tried my hand at a simple floral design (not nearly as awesome as hers, of course!) with a gold sharpie.  I just wanted it to be kind of loose and organic and not too perfect and I also painted some light pink dots on the wall for a little added interest.

small closet makeover

So, there you have it!  A quick little closet redo.  It took me about three hours from start to finish, seriously (of course, it’s a very small space!), which was much less than I expected.   It’s so nice to actually know what is in there and be able to get to it easily, which makes getting ready infinitely better.  I have maternity clothes and other staples I wanted to save in two bins under our bed, so the only items there are those I can wear at this point.

Be sure to check out Pinterest Told Me To today to see a few more photos, as well as some of my favorite things from my closet.  I have several friends who are big fans of Sheaffer and take lots of inspiration from her, and if you aren’t familiar with her site,  she’s an adorable wife and mom who uses Pinterest as inspiration to put together outfits with items from her own closet.  She has become somewhat of a personal stylist for her readers, giving them courage to try out new trends and looks, and they clearly love taking her advice!

small closet makeover

Thanks, Sheaffer, for letting me play along!   Be sure to enter the awesome $150 Stella and Dot giveaway she is offering below!

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girl baby room ideas

Some feathered inspiration for today.  Love that gorgeous rug!

A few fun links for Friday, too:

How awesome are these potty training charts from Hello Lucky?  There is a girl version and a boy version (hilarious!!).  Perfect for when you are on the potty train wreck.

Love these new zebra crib sheets.

I was happy to recently find one of my favorite shops again (she left etsy and I couldn’t find her!).  She makes the cutest little animals and often does sales on instagram.  The bunnies are ridiculous and perfect for Easter.

Chip bought me this adorable edition of Alice in Wonderland (love Mr. Boddington’s studio!) and I’ve really been enjoying reading it, not to mention it’s perfect on my nightstand.



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(my grandparents)

Just a little slice of life here.  I am working on our bedroom, as I mentioned Monday, and I’m planning to hang a print out of a note Chip received from a friend.  As I was getting it ready to hang, I reflected a little on what was behind it, and I thought I’d share.

It was before we found out we were expecting Brigette, and Vivi was about 17 months old and we had settled into a pretty good routine.  Everything was just kind of normal.  I remember at that time driving in my car somewhere with Vivi and I was thinking about our life and it just kind of felt a bit dry.  Not bad, mind you, but it just felt like we had settled a bit.  Chip’s work was going well, and he worked late some nights, and it seemed our days and evenings were predictable with Vivi, and you know, things were just routine.  Not many surprises, everything was just comfortable.  And it was comfortable with Chip and me.  We had been married for four and a half years and I thought, “well, I guess this is it.  We’re out of the newlywed phase and just doing life now.”

Rather than being terribly bothered by that thought, I just went with it.  I mean, things were just fine.  Just not spectacular, I guess.

Then, we decided to refinance our house at a much lower interest rate, and because that process involves a meeting with other adults and signing 18,000 pieces of paper, Chip and I asked my mom to come up for the day and keep Vivi.  We left the house around 9 a.m. on a Friday, and she said she would keep her all day, so we planned to stay out.  I dressed up.  I wore a skirt and carried a tiny purse (because when do I ever get to do that?) and dried my hair.  After the meeting, we realized we had an entire day with absolutely no plans.  And no nap schedule to adhere to.  And it felt so good.  I couldn’t remember the last time I felt so free.  We stopped at a fancy-ish place and had a delightful lunch, then we went to the mall and Chip bought me a dress just because, then we caught a matinee movie because we could, and we rounded out the night with burgers and fries at a favorite restaurant where we played board games and talked about our dreams and just anything at all that came into our heads.  It was amazing.

The next morning, we had to run to a shop to pick up a mother’s day gift for Chip’s grandmother.  My mom was still in town, so she stayed with Vivi and we ran into this friend.  He’s really more of an acquaintance in the creative world, and we don’t know him super well, but he is one of those people who just knows how to throw out truth when he sees it.  He is discerning and encouraging, and it’s kind of a rare gift to find.  It was a short little interaction, and then a couple of days later, Chip forwarded me the email he received.  This is part of what it said:

I read it and tears sprang up in my eyes.  I thought, “he’s absolutely right!  We are in great love!  This is a fantastic adventure we are living together.  How could I ever possibly forget?”  How good to have someone reiterate it just when I needed to hear it.   I don’t share this to say “look at us, we have it all together” because that isn’t the point, and it’s also not the case.  The point is we took a time out from everything to reconnect, and it obviously made a difference.  It recentered us, reconnected us.   I have saved that note with plans to hang it as a reminder when things feel dry, that we have a great love, and it’s worth reading daily to really look at this precious person that swept me off my feet with fresh eyes unclouded by the daily stuff that dulls the senses.  Just so good.

And it’s also a great reminder to speak truth into the lives of others when we see it.  Sometimes it’s exactly what their heart needs to hear.


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